The wedding day is one of the most important days in a person’s life. So, it makes sense for it to be a day surrounded by countless traditions and superstitions. Many of these have become staples in any matrimonial celebration, but have you ever wondered why? Here are the meanings behind a few of the most popular wedding traditions!
The Bouquet
The bouquet is above all, a symbol of happiness. Originally, bridal bouquets were made of herbs, each with different meanings. The bride would carry sage-for wisdom, dill-for lust, and even garlic (yes, GARLIC!) to ward off evil spirits. Today, flowers take on their own meanings. Lilies, for example, stand for purity and orange blossoms stand for both happiness and fidelity. Now, when searching for that perfect bouquet, you can put even more meaning behind it than just a color scheme!
The Ring Finger
Have you ever wondered how the ring finger was chosen? Well, this answer is both short and sweet! Most people wear engagement and wedding rings on the fourth finger of the left hand because it was once believed (by the Ancient Romans) that a vein in that finger led directly to the heart.
The Kiss
The kiss, which typically symbolizes the end of a wedding ceremony, is a practice with very significant meaning. In ancient times, the kiss was legally binding and signified mutual acceptance of the contract of marriage. It is said that the bride and the groom “exchanged a bit of their souls” with the breath of a kiss!
The Honeymoon
The practice of a honey moon began ages ago. After the wedding, the bride and groom would drink honey wine for one full moon cycle (30 days). This “moon” (i.e., “month”) became known as the “honey moon.” Even though the name has survived, the concept has certainly changed quite a bit!
The Cake
Today’s tiered wedding cakes were once more than just extravagant confectionary masterpieces for guests to marvel at. They posed somewhat of a game or challenge to the newlywed couple. Spiced cakes were stacked in a towering pile, as high as possible and if the bride and groom were able to kiss over the tall stack, it indicated a lifetime of prosperity. Needless to say, not many of today’s couples attempt this daring feat.
Learning the origins behind wedding traditions can bring even more meaning to your special day! Do you have a favorite wedding tradition? Be sure to share it with us in the comments below on our Facebook page!
